Issue 7 October 25, 2004


A Letter from the Editor: Fall Alumni Weekend ’04

Dear Old Farts...Oops…Old Guards,

Fall Alumni Weekend ’04 was another great success. Despite job responsibilities and conventions, Florida hurricanes, visits by children and grandchildren, prostate surgery recoveries, and elderly parents we had a good turn out. When I (Chuck Curatalo ’67) walked into the Big Tree I was greeted by Walt Peek ’65 who was waiting patiently at the bar. No sooner had we filled our beer glasses when Al Tolsma ’67, Bob Veltz ’68 and Dave Mead ’68 joined us.

Al brought along great Xerox copies of the 1966 and 1967 Sig Tau composites. As we looked over the pictures we talked about the old days and wondered whatever happened to some of our bros. We talked about the Regattas, White Rose Balls and the time the college stopped us
from building our birth control theme float for the Homecoming ’66 Parade. What a sight it would have been to have the pope floating down Main Street in a sea of tissue paper pink carnations with the Greek symbols of male and female by his side and with condom balloons streaming into the Geneseo blue sky. All this accompanied by the tune of “I’ve Got Rhythm” blaring out of the built-in speakers. We would have surely taken first place that year if President MacVittie
and his cohorts hadn’t screwed us!

We also discussed the reports of erectile dysfunction in some of our Old Guard bros. However, Al, Walt, Bob, Dave and I boasted of the wonders of Viagra and Cialis. None of us reported the four hour erections as annoying and did not “seek immediate medical attention” as the makers advertise. We all agreed True Old Guards must not seek medical attention….. When we get “wood” we flaunt it everywhere!

After an hour or two of beer guzzling and several choruses of “We are the Sig Taus” we decided we better head over the Vital Spot to raise our glasses with our younger bro. Before venturing out Bob presented us with copies of the original Sig Tau sweatshirts which he kindly had made for us. Sad to say all of us required the Extra Large size. After putting on our new shirts, Al Tolsma substituting for our absent dance leader Gordy Bruce led our happy Conga line down Main Street to the Vital Spot. He did a very fine job on such short notice. Even though he was without maracas, the empty beer bottles stuffed with beer nuts proved a fine substitute.

As our conga line huffed and puffed through the door of the Vital Spot we were applauded by our younger bro and alumni. We were amazed and proud at how quickly they pulled up chairs for us. Tears filled our eyes as they spiked our beer glasses with generous helpings of Metamucil and challenged us to down shots with them. Unfortunately they filled our shot glasses with Geritol while they downed the vodka. Nevertheless their hearts were in the right place. After more beer and fun conversation, the present ETs John Brugno, Aaron Strahl and Sean Coughlin among others led us to Ago House for more drink, food and fun.

The Ago House was filled with bodacious lovelies when we arrived. After several lap dances by our very accommodating sorority sisters, we were offered cheese and crackers along with the beer and wine. With nothing else on the menu we stuffed our lactose intolerant stomachs with the quarter inch squares of cheddar cheese. Thank God the house was filled with music and chatter which drowned out the flatulent effects of the cheese, not to mention the Metamucil.

Bidding our young hostesses good by we headed off to the Big Tree for the Cocktail Hour where we were joined by Tom Welch ’68 and his lovely fiancée Maureen. The evening was filled with conversation about the present. Everyone thought Pat Pallend’s (’67) Bio in the recent newsletter was a helluva read! And we agreed he’s certainly led an unusual and adventurous life. We talked about Bruce Jordan ‘66 and his fantastic success with Shear Madness and wondered why we haven’t heard from such Old Guards as Roy Howard ‘67, Mike Luczak ‘68 and others.

During the great dinner our conversations involved the present as well as the past. As our waiter swished about our table we talked about our families and Old Guard plans for the future such as a Day at the Races for next summer. We decided some of us have to give a personal call to encourage those bros who don’t want to get off their asses to get involved. After finishing our food, wine and coffee, we gave each other a big hug and vowed to meet again at Spring Alumni Weekend in April. (Pictures of the weekend can be viewed at Dave’s website: http://www.lilbytesoftstuff.com/etog.html)

Fraternally yours,

Chuck Curatalo ‘67

 

Spring Alumni Weekend ’05: Saturday, April 30th 2005

Once plans are finalized plans for Spring Alumni Weekend. they will be sent out via Sig Tau Old Guard Special Bulletins and Newsletters. Plans will also be announced on their Sig Tau website at http://www.geneseo.edu/~SIGTAU/brothers.html

If you think you’ll need a room make a reservation on the Days Inn website or call directly at 1-585-243-0500 NOW and save yourself a headache later! Reservations can always be cancelled before 6 pm date of arrival.


Get a Replica of the Original Sig Tau Sweatshirt

Bob Veltz ’68 has had exact copies made of the original Sig Tau sweatshirts for Old Guard members. He is offering these Fruit of the Loom brand shirts to members for $25 each (below cost). You can order them in sizes Large and Extra Large. Other sizes could be ordered. You can see what the shirts look like if you go to Dave Mead’s (’67) company website at http://www.lilbytesoftstuff.com/etog.html and go to the pictures link for Fall Alumni Weekend ’04. Contact Bob at for information on how to purchase and receive your sweatshirt at rveltz@rochester.rr.com.

MIN-BIO: Dale E. Metz (The Dark-Haired One!)

Circa May, 1970: I was captain of the “A Team” with respect to the 1969 draft lottery (#70); my fate was sealed. My graduate school admission at Purdue was put on hold and with extraordinary luck I landed a slot in the National Guard. I left Geneseo almost a month prior to graduation to attend basic training at Fort Polk, LA (a lovely place) where they taught me to march, shoot a 50-caliber machine gun, become culturally aware, and other useful behaviors designed to sustain life in combat. Only one dickhead professor at Geneseo insisted that I take the final exam a month before the course was finished (a statistics course). Even though I did poorly on his final (duh!), I graduated in absentia with honors.
Circa September, 1970: I was released from basic and advanced training to come home. During my time away from home, Jackie Palladine and I became engaged. Some of you may remember her—she was a Home-coming Queen in ’68 or ’69. {This is a Jackie diversion for a moment—Jackie and I were married for 14 years and had one son, Sean. Sean is 26 years old now, teaching earth science at Brighton High School, a suburb of Rochester. Sean is getting married in November this year. Jackie retired this past year from an elementary principalship at Marcus Whitman Central School District}. She’s doing well.
Circa September 1971: Went to Purdue, got a masters degree; loved the school, but hated Indiana. Left and went to Syracuse University and Upstate Medical Center to pursue a degree in communication sciences with an emphasis in physiology. Received my Ph. D. in 1976.
Circa September 1976: I was offered a position back at Geneseo. I took it, but it wasn’t for me at the time. The National Technical Institute for the Deaf at Rochester Institute of Technology, coincidentally, was looking for Ph.D. level people to establish a research department. I jumped at the chance and was hired. After 15 years there, a new wife (Wendy) the light of my life, about 90 publications, and two text books, I accepted a position back at the home turf. It is truly a pleasure to be back. I have a corner office in Sturges and I have every intention of staying home until retirement (hopefully soon).
Wendy and I spend our summers on our boat in Sodus Bay exchanging sailor stories with the people at the yacht club. Life is good. Take care my friends.

Whatever Happened to Wayne Crawford?

Do you remember Wayne Crawford a Sig Tau Old Guard who transferred out of Geneseo at the end of 1966? Wayne went on to graduate from the Florida Atlantic University and became an actor, writer, director and motion picture producer.
His most famous accomplishment was as a writer and producer of Valley Girl (1983) starring Nick Cage. He also went on to become an action hero in such movies as Night of the Comet, Jake Speed and Snake Island. He has written, directed and produced many of the movies in which he has starred. U’bejani (1997) a family film in which he directed and starred in won the National Education Media Network’s Apple Award and the Breckenridge Festival of Film Award.
His TV credits include Okanvango and On the Loose in Wildest Africa a documentary series in which he starred on the Travel Channel. He is also a lecturer on directing in various colleges and will soon be soon seen in Forget About It costarring Burt Reynolds and Racquel Welch. (Still from picture on the left.)

Old Guard Notes

…..Jack Sheehan ’66 has recovered from successful prostate surgery and is back running his company The Costumer. You can visit Jack’s company website at http://www.thecostumer.com/ .
…..Tom DeBello ’65 reports that he is recovering from successful prostate cancer surgery. He will shortly return to work teaching courses in exotic locations such as Tegucigalpa, Honduras for the State University at Buffalo.
.....Tommy Welch ’68 and his girlfriend Maureen have become engaged to be married. Tommy reports that this marriage will be his last.
…..Bruce Jordan ‘66 writes that his hit comedy play Shear Madness continues to set longevity records each time it plays in Boston. The Boston company will celebrate its 25th anniversary this January 31st. The show is also in its 17th year at the Kennedy Center in Washington, DC. Plans are underway for licensed productions in Miami, Atlanta, Palm Beach, Milwaukee, Las Vegas and Vancouver. “It’s one of the busiest years ever for Shear Madness,” according to Bruce. Meanwhile he is watching over his production of Steve Martin’s The Underpants which he directed at the Lake George Theatre this year. Find out more about Bruce and his hit play at the company website http://www.shearmadness.com/ The Study Guide Link gives a good history of the production.
…..Tim Lyons ’69 reports that he has retired from teaching.
…..Jim Restal ’70 reports that he is still married to Patricia Adamski the White Rose Queen of 1969.
…..Pat Pallend ’67 reports that his son USCM has returned to Iraq for his second tour and is currently involved in operations in the Sunni Triangle and it would be great if the Old Guards would hold a good thought for him and all the others with him.



Membership Update

Our membership keeps on growing! Our active member list is now 29 and hopefully will continue to grow. If you’ve got a little or big brother on the Inactive List give them a call. Ask them to send in their email address ccuratal@rochester.rr.com so they can receive our newsletters and join in on the fun!

UPDATED MEMBER DIRECTORY

Active Old Guard Member Directory*

 
Member Email Address Address City/State Phone
          
Irv Beimler ibeimler@hovde.com 1824 Jefferson Place NW(B) Washington DC 20036 202-822-817(B)
Roger Brown rogerdbrown@msn.com 13 Lindsey Ave. Dansville PA 17821 570-271-1008
Gordy Bruce gbruce07@msn.com 129 Milford Drive West Syracuse NY 13206 315-463-8315
Jim Burk dentist539@aol.com 78837 Jay St. Pultneyville NY 14538-0108 315-589-8201
Mike Crino crino@clemson.edu Clemson University Clemson SC 29621-1305 864-656-3753(B)**
Chuck Curatalo ccuratal@rochester.rr.com 145 Chimney Hill Rd. Rochester NY 14612 585-723-3487
Tom DeBello setdebello@hotmail.com 43 River Heights Smithtown NY 11787-1713 631-265-6956
Ken Gadbow kgadbow@rochester.rr.com 4951 Butler Rd. Canandaigua NY 14424 585-394-7732
Bob Hussey rhussey@frontiernet.net 9805 Highland Ave. Dansville NY 14437 585-335-9795
Bruce Jordan brujordan@aol.com 12 ½ North Ferry St. Schenectady NY 12305 518-346-6149
Gary Kresser garykress@aol.com 87 Westgate Rd. Kenmore NY 14217 716-874-2392
Dan Kwarta dkwarta@rochester.rr.com 78 Main St. POB 55 E. Bloomfield NY 14443-005 585-657-6550
Spike Leonard scramtwo@aol.com 125 E Main St. Avon, NY 14414 585-226-2594
Tim Lyons alyons@rochester.rr.com 4552 State Rte. 20 A West Warsaw, NY 14569-9712 585-786-3458
Dave Mead dmead001@rochester.rr.com 114 Main St. Mt. Morris NY 14510 585-658-9658
Dale E. Metz metz@geneseo.edu SUNY Geneseo Geneseo NY 14454 585-245-5132
Dale J. Metz smetz@triad.rr.com 5318 Montevista Dr. Greensboro NC 27407 336-454-5835
Jack Morrell jmorrell@redsuspenders.com Salzburg Village Palmyra NY 14522 315-597-9560
Pat Pallend pjp@fairburn.com 43 Greene St. NE Fairburn, GA 30213-1446 770-969-6315
Walt Peek wnpeek@usadatanet.net 182 West Lake Road Penn Yan NY 14527-8905 315-536-6230
Jim Restall jnrestall@aol.com 103 Peoria Ave. Buffalo, NY 14206-2632 716-894-3093
Bill Ryan w.ryan@tcu.net      
Jack Sheehan costumerjs@aol.com 25 Sunnyside Dr. Scotia NY 12302 518-346-2891
Mike Sobczak msobczak@pirnie.com 7 Victoria Dr. Hilton Head SC 29926 843-837-4810
Jim Tobin tobinjat46@aol.com 62 Valewood Run Penfield, NY 14526 585-388-0982
Al Tolsma altols@aol.com 55 Majestic Circle Amherst NY 14226 716-835-8435
Bob Veltz rveltz@rochester.rr.com 80 Sandoris Cir. Rochester NY 14622 585-266-9256
Tommy Welch tomwelch@frontiernet.net 4259 County Rd. 4 Canandaigua NY 14424 585-394-0108
Fred Welch w5105@msn.com 5105 Claybank Ln Centreville, VA 20120 703-830-5946

* Members whose email addresses are known. Receive Newsletter via email.
B=Business
 
New to list.  

 

Inactive Old Guard Members*

Name Address City/State Phone
Leroy Clinton 675 Hammond St. 1 Chestnut Hill, MA 02167-2117 617-879-9824
Tom Crowley 240 West Cornwall Road W. Cornwall, CT 06796 860-672-0103
Jeff Gosch 4307 Cinnamon Path Liverpool, NY 13090-1927 315-652-4492
Chuck Hall 6480 Reservoir Rd. Hamilton, NY 13346-9559 315-824-1674
John Hoffman 6 Terry Ave. Schenectady, NY 12303-4812  
Roy Howard 3438 Valley Ranch Dr. Lutz, FL 33548-4758 813-908-0817
Mike Luczak 68 Brookridge Dr. Exeter, RI 02822-3619 401-294-9766
Robert Kochman 301 E. 21st St., Apt 7E New York, NY 10010-6534  
Howard Kranz 70 Manton St. Sayville, NY 11782-1326  
Chet Kuhn 4219 E. Main St. Williamson, NY 14589-9212  
Larry Horgan 1 Cline Rd. Victor, NY 14564  
Larry Patzwald 122 Miner St. Canton, NY 13617-1349 315-379-9597

 *Have not responded to invitations and/or requests for email addresses.

Lost Old Guard Members*

Wayne Crawford Henry Harvey Jack Piedmont Erik Wilson
John Duncan Ron Leffler Peter Schonleber  
Ed Garrison Sal Marchese Greg Sutherland  
Jim Goldseth Bob Meyers Jim Vidocy  

*Members whose addresses are not known. Unfortunately, the Alumni Office does not usually keep track of those who drop out or transfer before graduating. Many on this list apparently did not graduate from Geneseo. IF YOU HAVE ANY INFORMATION ON THE ADDRESSES OF ANY OF THESE BROS PLEASE CONTACT CHUCK AT ccuratal@rochester.rr.com SO HE CAN SEND OUT OLD GUARD CONTACT INFO.

Progress Report on Recruitment of Inactive Old Guards:

In an effort to increase our ranks the following letter has been mailed to each brother on the list of Inactive Old Guards. To date only Tim Lyons ’69 and Jim Restall ’69 have returned the requested information.

Hi _______________,

How in the hell have you been? Remember the fun we had some 40 years ago when we formed Sigma Tau Psi at Geneseo. Remember the good times at the Follies, Snow Sculptures, the Regattas and the White Rose Balls? And of course who can forget the infamous Jenny Awards and parties under the “bridge”? Guess what? Some of us “Old Guard” are having just as much fun as we did in those “happy-go-lucky, bare-assed and free” years.

In 2003 we formed a group called “The Sig Tau Old Guards” that meet twice a year in Geneseo for Fall Alumni Weekend (Homecoming) and Spring Alumni Weekend. We have located over 25 active members who keep in touch via The Sig Tau Old Guard Newsletter which is published via email periodically throughout the year. All our members pledged in the formative years of ETY 1963-1967. We also have a website, thanks to Dave Mead “68 which archives all our newsletters and photographs of our events. Go there and read the “Tales of Alumni Weekend” article in Issue 6 to see how much fun we had at our Spring Alumni event at Geneseo. The website address is http://www.lilbytesoftstuff.com/etog.html Surely you will run across many names of brothers you would enjoy spending time with again. (The website address is not linked to anything so only Old Guards who know the address can log in. This protects all information such as email addresses from being viewed by outsiders.)

Would you like to get in touch or get together with a lost “Big” or “Little Brother” or just a good old bro whom you have not seen in over thirty-five years? Well here is your chance. Our newsletters are filled with contact information for all Old Guards. We have phone numbers, home and email address for all of the Sig Taus we have contacted. We also feature a biography of an Old Guard in every issue and also an Old Guard Notes section that highlights noteworthy events in our members’ lives.

The current Sig Taus work closely with us providing us fun-filled activities at the various Alumni events. At Homecoming ’03 they celebrated the Fortieth Year of the founding of Sig Tau with food drink, and a souvenir tee shirt. At all events we manage to meet by ourselves for drinks and dinner at the Big Tree Inn, our old stomping ground. There is also talk of having a cruise together or meeting in some other fun places.

The current Sigma Tau Psi Fraternity website is at http://www.geneseo.edu/~SIGTAU/brothers.html . The current Sig Taus would like each alumni member to fill out a data sheet which you can access at their website so they can contact each member with their own newsletters. There is also a history section with an article by Bruce Jordan ’66 one of the founders that will bring back old memories.

So send Chuck Curatalo ’67 your email address at ccuratal@rochester.com or fill out the enclosed form and return it to us in the enclosed stamped envelope. We are looking forward to keeping in contact with you and hope you join us at our events. Don’t hesitate—we won’t live forever! Remember one of our old sayings “Life is a banquet and most of us poor SOBs are starving!!” So get to it!!

Fraternally yours,
Chuck “Charles” Curatalo ‘67
SIG TAU OLD GUARD NEWSLETTER EDITOR

PS: REMEMBER TO SEND YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS otherwise you will not receive future newsletters. The issues are delivered via email only.

Next Sig Tau Old Guard Newsletter Issue: January 2005
Stay tuned for Special Bulletins until then.

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